A close, longtime friend died after a 6-year battle with Alzheimer’s disease. A few days after her death, my wife and I attended a wedding. As the bride and groom exchanged their vows, I pondered the whole matter of promising. It was beautiful to witness two excited young people in their twenties pledging their lives to each other. But it was profound to remember the faithfulness of our recently departed friend. She and her husband had kept their wedding vows for more than half a century, even when the final years were darkened by her memory loss and decline.
Lewis Smedes wrote, “Some people still make promises and keep those they make. When they do, they help make life around them more stably human. Promise-keeping is a powerful means of grace in a time when people hardly depend on each other to remember and live by their word.”
Psalm 15 proclaims the qualities of the steadfast, God-honoring person who enjoys fellowship with our promise-keeping Lord (1 Ki. 8:56). This individual keeps his promises even when it hurts (Ps. 15:4).
Our most important commitments are fulfilled one day at a time. “I do.” “I will.” “You can count on me.” There is power in every promise that is made and kept.
Thinking It Over
Are you a person whose word can always be trusted?
What commitments have you made to your family,
your spouse, your friends, your church, God?
When you give your word, keep it.